Gf took a knife to my gear....

Gf took a knife to my gear....
Posted on: 28.01.2012 by Rufina Stange
Backstory: Run into older sisters friend (a girl) at a bar last evening . Known her since I was about 6. Gf was in the restroom at the time. Gf sees me talking to this girl, and gets upset.

Long story short, she accuses me of cheating, and I end up sleeping on a friends couch.


Come home earlier today....:eek:

Knife with 90 degree bend on table and some unkind words written on the wall with a marker. Immediately check my dj gear...

-DJM 909 has new custom faceplates
-Mackie MR5's have all kinds of new ventilation holes in the cones
-Tone arm clip, headshell, Shure carts...may they rest in pieces (headshell is in 4 pieces)
-Tone arm itself has a gash on it
-Audio 6, yep been stabbed and scratched too

*My MBP was missing, turns out she just hid it.


Whyyyyyy? I'm inclined to believe my gf has a jealousy problem. And my poor mixer and Tech mk5 paid the price.


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Joselyn Supina
30.01.2012
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8pklq_ShnbA
Romelia Stankard
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by EssBee
Like me some asians
Sounds pretty good to me. That's the one thing florida is lacking, I wish I could just replace all the latinas with asians.
Rufina Stange
30.01.2012
Yep, been believeing about moving out of the central valley for a while now. I work in Mountain View monthly. So now might be a good time to transfer from community college to San Jose State and move. Like me some asians

Originally Posted by MeowMix
ha hahahah HAHAHAHAHAHA


P.S. If she unjustly accused you of cheating why the fuck were you the one sleeping somewhere else?
Needed to remove myself from the situation before things escalated, plus I was the only one sober enough to go elsewhere safely & legally.
Romelia Stankard
30.01.2012
That sucks man. After she pays for everything I hope you tell her to leave.

She sounds crazy.
Rufina Stange
30.01.2012
There's a cut down the middle of the audio 6 on the bottom too, but it just ripped the NI product sticker. Also noticed later that everything was unplugged, rather forcefully by the looks of some of the cords.


Poor speaker



Now this part really made me believe WTF??

When I first saw the wall it read something like, "I Steven am a cheating a**hole". I put the timecode vinyl up for comparison.

She washed most of it off and wrote over it, . Why not just wash it all off? I have reason to believe half a bottle of missing vodka have something to do with all of the events surrounding these happenings.
Kiyoko Wellisch
30.01.2012
Taking a knife to a mixer is pretty stupid- it's hardly done any damage. You could break the knobs fairly easily with a heavy blunt object and that LED screen can't be too hard to crack. I'd probably throw it out a second story window a few times for good measure. That or piss in/on it.
Rufina Stange
30.01.2012
Pics are from my phone, so not the best quality.


Gash is a little hard to see


Faceplate and knife. Doesn't look like a lot, but this probably made me the most because there wasn't a thing wrong with it before.


Rufina Stange
30.01.2012
Uploading some photos right now. Didn't believe this thread would get so big. My DJ friends shared most of the same sentiments. One of their girlfriends offered to beat her a** for me lol.

Last few days have been interesting to say the least.....weird situation as we have an apartment together and neither of us can really afford rent on our own. Kind of like I'm single and she's my roommate...but she's hoping we're still going out. It's obvious what needs to be done, but this my stay in limbo until other arrangements can be made (no way am I moving back into my parents home).

So far:
-New cartridge, headshell, and tone arm clip have been ordered. (Paid for by her)

-Still waiting for her to go buy/pick up new speaker sub assembly.

That totals to around $160-$170.

Sad news is I believe she f*&%#d the tone arm. She broke the headshell right off it, and now it's all wonky. Need to take it in to get looked at...oh well, if it needs to be replaced, she'll be paying for it.

Originally Posted by MrPopinjay
Look on the bright side- you found out she was a psycho bitch before you married her or anything.
I was believeing the exact same thing.
Emely Metz
30.01.2012
i believe we've been trolled :P
Lilliana Perris
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by Xonetacular
You missed my point, this thread has gone several pages with no updates or pictures posted and OP disappeared. That's what's lame.
DOH...I slipped....and got all serious...my bad.

Its happened to me before...so hits close to home I guess.

Tamekia Piraino
30.01.2012
Maybe she stabbed him
Romelia Stankard
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by sarasin
Wouldn't be lame if it happened to you mate....

I know that I personally worked HARD for the money to afford my gear.
It took time...effort to research what I needed etc.

Only to have someone you thought you loved and who loved you, do this to it?

Its the ULTIMATE disrepect.....

Sure, you should not put yourself in these positions....but we human no?
You missed my point, this thread has gone several pages with no updates or pictures posted and OP disappeared. That's what's lame.
Janyce Henningson
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by padi_04
lmao - love it
Tess Faillace
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by Squints
Stab her with said knife

Mix next gig wearing her face
ha hahahah HAHAHAHAHAHA


P.S. If she unjustly accused you of cheating why the fuck were you the one sleeping somewhere else?
Lilliana Perris
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by Xonetacular
Every time I come on this thread is at the top and it is still just as lame.

Wouldn't be lame if it happened to you mate....

I know that I personally worked HARD for the money to afford my gear.
It took time...effort to research what I needed etc.

Only to have someone you thought you loved and who loved you, do this to it?

Its the ULTIMATE disrepect.....

Sure, you should not put yourself in these positions....but we human no?
Nedra Fresneda
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by Xonetacular
Every time I come on this thread is at the top and it is still just as lame.
This should help a little

Jonathan Chiuchiolo
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by BlackJesus
Cool Story Bro

Originally Posted by Nicky H
+1
+2
Romelia Stankard
30.01.2012
Every time I come on this thread is at the top and it is still just as lame.
Erich Vallabhaneni
30.01.2012
dude....ouch. 1st: find a way to replace your gear ASAP no matter what it takes. 2nd: book a show at a place you know she'd show up. 3rd:summon hot womenz to the DJ booth for music and sexah party time. Last:laugh at her with your music
Scarlett Saupp
30.01.2012
respect yourself, before she wrecks yourself

oh, and pics or ban.
Lilliana Perris
30.01.2012
Originally Posted by EssBee
Backstory: Run into older sisters friend (a girl) at a bar last evening . Known her since I was about 6. Gf was in the restroom at the time. Gf sees me talking to this girl, and gets upset.

Long story short, she accuses me of cheating, and I end up sleeping on a friends couch.


Come home earlier today....:eek:

Knife with 90 degree bend on table and some unkind words written on the wall with a marker. Immediately check my dj gear...

-DJM 909 has new custom faceplates
-Mackie MR5's have all kinds of new ventilation holes in the cones
-Tone arm clip, headshell, Shure carts...may they rest in pieces (headshell is in 4 pieces)
-Tone arm itself has a gash on it
-Audio 6, yep been stabbed and scratched too

*My MBP was missing, turns out she just hid it.


Whyyyyyy? I'm inclined to believe my gf has a jealousy problem. And my poor mixer and Tech mk5 paid the price.


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I feel ya mate....and can only say...get as far away from her as possible.
Next she will stab you bro....you NEVER KNOW when they snap like that.

My Ex totalled my gear too.

I got home to find EVERYTHING thrown around. Both Tonearms were ripped from my PDX2000's, Carts and needles destroyed. All my RCA,USB and power cables cut into bits.

The decks were upside down on the ground...been thrown about.

VCI100 and sound card also thrown against the wall.

Found my laptop tho....unscathed.

So yeah....All I can say...is get your shit out of there (if she still remains) or get her outta your life.

If she could do this to something you love and are so passionate about, she will do something worse next time.

If you let her stay, she will make you feel that it was YOUR fault for making her do that. She will cause you do retaliate....and then YOU are the bad guy.
Thats their MO.

They will do ALL this shit and get away with it....fuck with your head and get you to be the bad guy.

All I can advise on...is to get the fuck away from that thing...

Sorry about that mate....it sucks.....in the WORST way.

Janyce Henningson
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by BlackJesus
+1
Kristofer Krauel
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by MrPopinjay
Hitting a person is never an option.
Agreed.
Rosita Bourdeaux
29.01.2012
Cool Story Bro

Kiyoko Wellisch
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by kooper1980
You sound like a pleasant chap!! Hitting a woman is NEVER an option.
Hitting a person is never an option.
Romelia Stankard
29.01.2012
This thread is highly disappointing. No pics or update.
Elma Kersting
29.01.2012
Take photos of gear, show them to police, tell them your ex did that, ?????, profit.
Latoria Kavulich
29.01.2012
take photos. report to police. find a slightly less psychotic partner.
Kristofer Krauel
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by Dj_4-$hure
Beat the bitches ass! Cops don't give a shit, guarantee she'll learn her lesson.
You sound like a pleasant chap!! Hitting a woman is NEVER an option.
Latoria Kavulich
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by Dj_4-$hure
Beat the bitches ass! Cops don't give a shit, guarantee she'll learn her lesson.
no more suggestions like this please.
Ferdinand Zubieta
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by Bassline Brine
Dude. Balls.
Balls must've been chopped off.

We do need pics though.
Belle Tufnell
29.01.2012
Beat the bitches ass! Cops don't give a shit, guarantee she'll learn her lesson.
Emely Metz
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by Squints
Stab her with said knife

Mix next gig wearing her face
i concur
make a police report, and if all fails back to the 1st step
Kiyoko Wellisch
29.01.2012
Look on the bright side- you found out she was a psycho bitch before you married her or anything.
Scarlett Saupp
29.01.2012
Originally Posted by Bassline Brine
Dude. Balls.

I really hope she's a good lay.
she sounds like a feisty one
Audrey Pinda
29.01.2012
Dude. Balls.

I really hope she's a good lay.
Tesha Freudenstein
29.01.2012
call the cops and get her out of your life.
Terese Bachorski
29.01.2012
Usually, when people come with a such a story they bring pictures along.
Romelia Stankard
29.01.2012
Update?
Ferdinand Zubieta
29.01.2012
You have to file a complaint. She really does need to pay for the damage she caused.

If you went ape shit on her shit you would be sitting in jail, paying fines, getting a criminal record, and other shit would have got pinned on you too.

She seems like a person that would file a rape charge on a famous athlete.

Don't let her get away with this man.

Or i'll piss on your bed and scratch your flat screen tv up.

Sorry bout your gear though man, If you play your cards right though you'll recoup some of that stuff.

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