Gf took a knife to my gear....

bros before hoes. what an a**.

ANNND this morning I discovered she is banging my mate.

I have not touched her since last Jan....but she has been sleeping on the couch.
I am too soft...should have kicked her to the curb after she trashed my gear.

She left her mobile at home this morning....so yeah...I checked it.

Found a few texts from him to her...about shagging, being sneaky and me almost catching them.

So yeah....tomorrow I put her shit out on the pavement.....once she has gone to work.


I am cool, over it...so don't really care much. Its just that my mate betrayed me. He denied it of course.

Don't let this happen to you mate!

Backstory: Run into older sisters friend (a girl) at a bar last evening . Known her since I was about 6. Gf was in the restroom at the time. Gf sees me talking to this girl, and gets upset.

Long story short, she accuses me of cheating, and I end up sleeping on a friends couch.


Come home earlier today....:eek:

Knife with 90 degree bend on table and some unkind words written on the wall with a marker. Immediately check my dj gear...

-DJM 909 has new custom faceplates
-Mackie MR5's have all kinds of new ventilation holes in the cones
-Tone arm clip, headshell, Shure carts...may they rest in pieces (headshell is in 4 pieces)
-Tone arm itself has a gash on it
-Audio 6, yep been stabbed and scratched too

*My MBP was missing, turns out she just hid it.


Whyyyyyy? I'm inclined to believe my gf has a jealousy problem. And my poor mixer and Tech mk5 paid the price.


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Don't bother lowering yourself to this level. Respect her property and just have an honest conversation with her. I can guarantee it will be a lot more awkward for her, and give her no avenue to "go mental" than if you were to turf her stuff outside.

People HATE it when you behave like the better person.

how about today then... And don't forget to send her a text to explain why her shit is on the pavement. After all I'm sure she's looking forward to move in with her new boyfriend?

She left her mobile at home this morning....so yeah...I checked it. [...]

So yeah....tomorrow I put her shit out on the pavement....

When I first saw the wall it read something like, "I Steven am a cheating a**hole". I put the timecode vinyl up for comparison.

She washed most of it off and wrote over it, .

definitely Scratch certified now...

So now might be a good time to transfer from community college to San Jose State and move. Like me some asians .

Uploading some photos right now. Didn't believe this thread would get so big. My DJ friends shared most of the same sentiments. One of their girlfriends offered to beat her a** for me lol.

Last few days have been interesting to say the least.....weird situation as we have an apartment together and neither of us can really afford rent on our own. Kind of like I'm single and she's my roommate...but she's hoping we're still going out. It's obvious what needs to be done, but this my stay in limbo until other arrangements can be made (no way am I moving back into my parents home).

So far:
-New cartridge, headshell, and tone arm clip have been ordered. (Paid for by her)

-Still waiting for her to go buy/pick up new speaker sub assembly.

That totals to around $160-$170.

Sad news is I believe she f*&%#d the tone arm. She broke the headshell right off it, and now it's all wonky. Need to take it in to get looked at...oh well, if it needs to be replaced, she'll be paying for it.


I was believeing the exact same thing.