Reply to TouchOSC Pure Data PC Help!

I've been having a really tough time trying to get TouchOSC to work on my Ipad! My problem is I can't get Pure Data to receive a signal from the Ipad.

I have tried everything below on both in Windows 7 x64 abd XP x32.
I've tried connecting both to the same wifi network and entering the IP address of my laptop in TouchOSC.
I've disabled my firewall.
I've tried making an ad-hoc network and connecting each other using that.
I've tried changing the ports to 8001 in TouchOSC & PD.
I've edited my Pure Data file as best I can and can get Midi-Out into Traktor.
I've tried the default layouts and nothing seems to work.
I've got PD running with no errors (I've imported MRPEACH, changed to routeOSC, etc.)
I've tried Midi Yoke as well as LoopBE as incoming ports in Traktor.
I've tested the signal into PD, and cannot get ctlin to light up.
I've been able to send layouts to the Ipad from the PC, and that works fine.
I've gotten midi Touch to work fine, but I am not a huge fan of it and am just currently using it because it works.

Saying that I am a little frustrated at this point is an understatement. I'm hoping someone can help me with what is probably something simple but for the life of me I can't figure out. I've attached my PD file if anyone wants to take a look. Finally, I have pd-extended installed.

I have a Dell Studio 1555 with the internal network card disabled and a usb dongle plugged in to minimize DPL.