Reply to desperate help please!

well i just got the vestax vci 100, and i thought that it was a regular dj set, because i previously had a numark idj3 (iknow very beginner) but i have no idea how to set this up with traktor and idk how to use my headphones so i can sync everything and stuff. and i know for all u pros, that this thread might piss u off because of me being such a dumbass and yeah im sorry, but can u guys give me some tips or advice on what to do with this piece of metal! thanks