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Ok so i got a Vestax Spin recently but i can't get my headphones working for cueing. I don't know if it's an actual problem with the soundcard, or driver problems. I've tried everything and searched all over the internet trying to solve it.

I've had multiple problems, but what happens is whenever I load ASIO4ALL in Virtual DJ i get an error message and it says to shutdown or recover. I also got a direct x WDM error message a few times booting it up in VDJ.
In Traktor i can't select ASIO or my computer crashes with the BSOD, i selected the soundcard in Traktor itself and it's just a bunch of distorted noise.

I've tried a few different drivers, tried without ASIO and with it. and i reinstalled it over and over hoping it would work.

If i use it in VDJ without ASIO, i can get sound out my speakers but i can't cue at all. or the song wont play.
I have the Spin selected for headphones and speakers for master.
So i believe i had it set up right, i also tried several other settings.

The only time I got sound out of the Spin soundcard with headphones is doing the windows sound test in playback devices.

So I don't know what to do to get it to work!
anyone got any ideas?