Reply to Utility 2.3 Failed to find MidiFighter in bootloader mode

Just got my MF3D today but cannot update the firmware, it always fails with this error.

Utility v2.3 - Failed to find MidiFighter in bootloader mode

I read in the community s that AV or firewalls can cause this, so i uninstalled all of it and disabled windows firewall.Traktor and windows recognize it, and the lights work.Traktor does nothing when pushing buttons, i tried 2.6 & 2.13 with multiple mappings, but wont do anything.I would of expected it to at least do something.

During the update the mf3d powers down and up again, also the system sound for device unplugged plays then again for connecting.Idk if this is the issue, it does this if i try putting it in boot mode manually.